When will it ever happen?
If you feel like you’re doing everything “right” (or at least, as best you can), yet your goals keep slipping out of your hands, I completely understand and hear you! For those in this situation and totally frustrated, please know that I stood exactly where you are (and not all that long ago), so please trust me when I say – you can get over this hump! And maybe my musing today might do the trick!
Watch out for the wipe-out!
One of my beautiful Real Manifesting course students asked me a brilliant question, of which I’ll re-phrase for easy understanding for those not in the course:
I have no patience for my current job and am really frustrated. But I’m focused and trying hard to manifest my dreams. I’m doing everything “right” and “by the book” to manifest. Why isn’t anything happening?
This is such a good question and a very common situation for “newbies” and confused dream-seekers who are trying to use the Law of Attraction to reach their goals. I thought it such a good question and relevant to what so many people are trying to do nowadays, that I felt my answer needed to be posted publicly!
So why hasn’t anything manifested for them? Because each day my hard-working, yet highly-frustrated student was wiping out all their positive manifesting momentum with their intense negative energy.
My actual response was: “What you’re saying is your dominant feeling is high-intensity frustration (result of lack of patience at work), yet you also have a high-intensity desire (goal of your own business growth), if that’s right, here’s the thing I think might be confusing you 🙂
You are effectively “nulling” out your the overall dominant feeling (the positive that’s needed to manifest), thus it’s not helping you move forward.
Let’s just say that your negative high-intensity emotion is (-10) on the scale. But your positive high-intensity is (+10) on the scale. When you put those two together, overall energetic vibration is = 0.
Your intense negative is counter-balancing your intense positive.
So, from my perspective, this means you should be focused on lowering the negative intensity (as you already have the fuel behind the positive) by working to release your impatience and allowing things to happen naturally. As we know, frustration does little to help anything move forward.
By working on improving your patience, your negative vibration will slowly move down the scale to -9, then to -8, -5, and so on. At that point, you ‘tip’ the positive energetic vibration to the dominant one. And the more dominant that positive vibration becomes, the easier it is to manifest what you’re desiring.”
Tip the scale in your favour
When I personally realised this – it made all the difference in my own manifesting goals. Now, this doesn’t mean that things are going to magically appear on your countertop (but, then again – don’t discount that possibility!) if you just pretend you’re positive.
You must practice stacking the positive in your favour. Tease out every bit of gratitude you can for what you do have. Tip the scale in your favour. What you’re doing then is getting onto the right channel so you can finally listen to the song you’re looking for. You cannot listen to a classical piece of music if you’re tuned into the rock & roll station. It might feel awkward at first, to be grateful for things you already have, but when you start to change your perspective and shift your focus – it’s incredible how quickly your goals find you!
Now for those who follow my teachings, you know that I’m a 100% “honour all your feelings” type of mentor. I want to take a moment to say that we all have bad days and have to deal with difficult situations. But we do not have to stay there for longer than necessary. Especially because happiness, success, fulfilment and joy do not reside in the same place that frustration, pity, martyrdom, and despair do.
Do not disrespect negative feelings when they arise. Honour them, but then let them go, when it’s the right time to, because you know (deep down already) those emotions won’t get you to where you want to go.
So, what next?
If your vision board is full and your affirmations are a-plenty, but your dreams are still purely in your mind. Then take a real hard look at how you really feel each day. You are most likely giving way too much energy to the wrong things – and not enough real positive energy to the right ones.
So at every opportunity, tweak that negative (be it major or minor), as best you can, into a positive.
And remember, you’re not doing this to ‘fake’ your life or ‘fool’ anyone. If you take your dreams seriously, then it’s high time you made a real, serious effort – from your inner core, your real energic-self, then upward and outward. You are strategically doing this to tip the scales back into your favour – because in your favour is their natural setting 🙂
I hope this has been helpful for you. And, not that you need it, but good luck with your manifesting 😉 #bigloverevolution